You’ve carried more than most will ever know—questions, silence, pain you couldn’t even put your finger on or name. I know I often smiled while breaking inside shoving my feelings down deep. Maybe you’ve lived decades trying to forget. So have I.
My name is Pamela, and I want to create space for you—for those of you who feel invisible, dismissed, or disconnected… but still have a quiet hope that healing is possible.
I didn’t write my story because I have all the answers. I wrote it because I finally stopped running. Because healing didn’t come from being perfect—it came from telling the truth. From choosing to live, to feel each feeling, and to believe in something greater than myself.
You are not broken. You are becoming!
And I’m here to remind you: The power is in your choices.
My name is Pamela, and I want to create space for you—for those of you who feel invisible, dismissed, or disconnected… but still have a quiet hope that healing is possible.
I didn’t write my story because I have all the answers. I wrote it because I finally stopped running. Because healing didn’t come from being perfect—it came from telling the truth. From choosing to live, to feel each feeling, and to believe in something greater than myself.
You are not broken. You are becoming!
And I’m here to remind you: The power is in your choices.

Pamela Hanson
Author

The Power Was In My Choices
Choose Again My Beloved
The Power Was in My Choices isn’t just about what happened to me—it’s about what I discovered inside of myself, and what is waiting inside of you, too. In these pages, I share the often messy, sometimes funny, and deeply healing journey of meeting my soul: my brave Shero (with a bit of sass), my tender inner child who just wanted to be seen and hugged, and even my shadow self—the part I usually hide behind a polite smile—who turned out to be surprisingly wise (and a little sarcastic).
